When Weather Gets Hot, So Do Tempers

We talk a lot about heat exhaustion and hydration—and we should. But here's the part we don’t always say out loud …

When it’s 95°F+ and you’re drenched in sweat, sleep-deprived, and on your 10th straight hour under the sun - for multiple days in a row …

People don’t just overheat physically - they overheat emotionally!

Snapping at a coworker. Miscommunicating on a phone/radio. Slamming tools around. These aren’t just “attitude problems.” They’re symptoms of stress, fatigue, dehydration, and a nervous system in overdrive.

Emotional regulation is a safety skill.

Heat reduces patience.
Fatigue kills empathy.
Stress shuts down clear thinking.

That’s a recipe for conflict, mistakes, injuries, and even workplace violence that would make a mosh pit look like a “safe space.”

We don’t just need water breaks—we need emotional cool-downs too.

Leadership on Hot Days Looks Like This:

Empathy Over Ego

Ask, “What’s going on brother/sister?” not “What’s your freaking problem?”

Listen With Purpose

Let them vent without fixing. Most people don’t want advice, told how to do their job, or “tough loved” into compliance —they want to be heard.

Model Calm

Your calm can regulate the group. People will reflect what they see. Scowl or talk crap, and they will magnify your posture by 1000. Be the thermostat - come in calm, curious, and collected, not the thermometer trying to force adjust the atmosphere.

Speak Clearly, Not Loudly

Tension multiplies when communication breaks down. Say it slower, not sharper.

Heat + Emotion First Aid Combo Pack:

Hydration:

Cold water, NOT ice-cold energy drinks.
Add electrolytes if sweating heavily, and you see the salt patches on clothes.
Offer—don’t just demand—they drink.
Remember mirroring; your stopping to sip and chat, lets them know you are present and applying “self-care,” as well.

Cooling:

Cool towels to the neck, armpits, and wrists.
Get to shade—even briefly.
Use humor if it helps others relax too.

Emotional Reset:

“Let’s take 5.” is powerful statement.
Pair a drink with a check-in: “You good?”
Never shame someone for losing their cool—help them get it back.

Water fixes dehydration. But empathy prevents explosions.

Sources:

Allen Woffard, host of “Diary of a Bald Man” podcast & soon to be released on Kindle “The Blind Side of Safety”.

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